I wish I couldve seen this movie earlier so I couldve partcipated in the film disucussion, but incidents occured and I didnt get around to seeing it in time.
However, today I sat down and watched it for the first... well second time. I saw half, maybe one quarter, of the movie a few years ago but turned it off for reasons I cant remember.
Let me say... wow. Wow, what a great movie. I wish I saw it earlier. The performances, the story, the direction, everything!! Easily one of Clints best.
My favourite scene is probably at the end when Clint is standing in the rain and him and Francesca are just looking at each other. I've never seen Clint use a rain sequence like that before and it was a very great scene. Lots of emotion involved and it brought tear to me eye. (Im not ashamed to admit that.)
I can also understand why Michael would be mad with his mom. If you think about it, Michael and his sisters life have been sort of based around a lie. Its hard for me to put myself in his shoes and decide whether or not I could forgive my mom for what she did. Its a hard decision that cant be rightfully thought about unless it actually happens.
Its nice though, that Michael can learn from this event and make his marriage better for him and his wife.
And the what if, possibility. What if Francesca left her family for Robert and left a note saying, 'bye, I met another guy so long, take care.'
Would she really have been happy with Robert? She would never see her kids again or the man she has spent most of her life with and who loves her alot. And could her kids ever forgive her for ditching them for some other man?
Robert was the kind of man, Im assuming, that she always wanted. He;s a guy who cares about her, he listens to her, talks with her and helps out. He's good looking and built.
I can see why she would fall in love with Robert, with the way her life is and how bored she seems with it, but could he really make her happy or wouldve it just been a little fling?
And heres another question, is Robert a bad guy? He knows she has kids and has a husband, but he continues to try and be with her and trys to get her to come with him. Wouldnt this ruin her familys life if she did? Does that make a Robert a bad man? Or a good man for giving her the oppurtunity to come into a new life and enjoy it?
FROM MGK - on February 02, 2003, 11:04:14 PM
Is it better to have loved and lost, or to never have loved at all?
I must say its probably best to have never loved at all. Why put yourself through the torture of thinking about the person you once loved, or still do, for the rest of your life? Realizing everyday that it couldve been differant, possibly even regreting it so much, you hate yourself for not stepping up to the plate and going with the oppurtunity? Its not a healthy way to live and I, personally, would have rather never loved. I wouldnt want to live my life with the thought of loving someone but lossing them for a specific reason.
I didnt think I'd enjoy 'Bridges' as much as I did, becuase its not the usual Clint, but it was nice to see him do something way off the radar. Im glad Clint did this movie. Thank you Clint.